Creating Comfort at the Dinner Table

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By Kimberly West ADC, CDP, MDE, VMC

Taste and smell play a crucial role in appetite and food preference. As dementia progresses, it can significantly change a person’s senses, affecting their eating habits and enjoyment of meals. Taste buds may become dulled or altered, making familiar foods seem unappealing or unpleasant. Vision changes can make it harder to distinguish food on the plate. Difficulty with coordination may make using utensils or drinking from a cup more challenging. A reduced ability to recognize hunger or thirst can lead to unintended weight loss or dehydration in the later stages of the disease. While these sensory changes can make mealtime frustrating or confusing, with the right adjustments, meals can remain a pleasant experience.

Tips to Making Dining More Enjoyable

·       Minimize distractions by turning off the TV and reducing background noise.

·       Keep the table setting simple and uncluttered.

·       Maintain a consistent mealtime routine in a familiar space.

·       Use brightly colored plates that contrast with the food to improve visibility.

·       Cut food into manageable pieces for easier handling.

·       Provide adaptive utensils, such as easy-grip spoons or non-slip mats.

·       Offer finger foods if using cutlery becomes too difficult.

·       Allow them to participate in small mealtime tasks, such as choosing between two meal options.

·       Serve familiar, well-loved dishes to spark interest in eating.

·       Use aromatic herbs and spices to enhance flavor, especially if taste and smell are

diminished.

·       Be patient, offering gentle encouragement without rushing or pressuring them.

·       Serve small, easy-to-eat portions to prevent overwhelming them.

·       If large meals are challenging, offer multiple small meals or snacks throughout the day.

·       Introduce one food item at a time if too many choices cause confusion.

·       Be open to trying different foods or adjusting mealtimes based on their comfort.

Creating an enjoyable dining experience for a person with dementia requires patience, adaptability, and a thoughtful approach to their changing needs. By fostering a calm and familiar environment, presenting food in an appealing and accessible way, and encouraging independence, mealtimes can become a source of comfort rather than stress. Most importantly, mealtimes should be about more than just eating. They should be opportunities for connection, warmth, and dignity. With the right strategies, dining can remain a pleasurable and meaningful part of daily life for those with dementia.

Sources

• Infographic: Six Tips To Make Mealtimes Easier for People With Alzheimer’s Disease from the National Institute on Aging 

• Food and Eating from the Alzheimer's Association 

• Eating and Dementia from the Alzheimer's Foundation of America

• Improving the Eating Experience from the Alzheimer's Society 

• Poor Appetite and Dementia from the Alzheimer's Society